Daily Dairies- Its My Life

I really do not own hate for anyone but that doesn't mean I cannot criticize anyone. And today one of my friend told me, every person has both: GOOD and BAD side. And I can gladly say that, ya dude you were right. But still, that doesn't changes my thinking. When people are proved to be fatal, please please please avoid them. Don't be stupid to do one on one with them. Trust me I have experienced it and it wasn't such a pleasant one. Always have two-three muscled men around ;). 


Anyways I named it Daily Diaries. To Simply put all my daily experiences and FRUSTRATION into this blog. So from past few days, my life had been meddled a lot. It has pissed me off a lot. Those words shook of the foundations of my life. I had been wondering,"all this years what I made of myself went into waste". Thinking about it I came to a conclusion that even though I am a mess, I don't give a damn about that, I love the way I am and I am proud of it. I need no advice from anyone until I ask for it. The only people who are really allowed to meddle around my life are my parents and me.


What I need to know and learn. I will learn it by myself and that too in my own pace. Lord Mahavira said," LIVE AND LET LIVE". I follow that and I do not like to bug anyone with their lives. It's their own life and I am no one to say anything to them regarding it. If I am a quiet and peace loving person, let me be that way. No matter what kind of people I face, I won't loose myself to anyone. I love the way I am right now and hopefully I will be the same in future(no matter I am messed up, I always manage to find out a way out of my problem and find my smile :D). 

I'm not perfect, I never tried to be. I've made mistakes. I've taken the easy way out. I've lied to my friends. I've hidden the truth so many times from so many people. I've hurt people, and I've even done it on purpose. I've left people behind. I've spread rumors. I've said things that I didn't mean. I'm no better than anyone, anywhere. I'm human. I have faults, and I'm not afraid to admit that. I want to change, but I won't. Because that's what we do. That's what we've always done. We list our faults like a grocery list, and we move on, expecting everything to somehow change itself. It never will. I will never change. I will never be perfect. I will always make mistakes. I'll, more often than not, take the easy way out. I will lie, hide the truth, hurt people, leave people behind, spread rumors, and say things I don't mean for the rest of my life.

Being You

I have seen many people around me and even myself to get affected by people. Oh c'mon, people have no other work to do other than manipulating and diverting minds of other for their own selfish reasons. People think we are their puppets and they can turn us the way they want to. Not even them, even we are fools. When we see some smart ass, we start wondering,"Do we need to be like them?" And out of those biggest fools are those who really follow them on their footsteps. (-_-)  Really? You want to be like him? Go and get a LIFE!!!

I was having a one on one match with that fool and you followed him, made a pair of idiots. And now its going to be a tag team match. Oh god! I need a partner now. Why don't you just become independent of others paths and ideal and make some of your own. You do not need to do what some great men did. They already have their name tagged in BOLD letters on their own achievement. And even if you did achieve, you are below them because they were first in the race. Try to be your own creative self. Free your mind clouded by the perception of others.

I personally think you are unique in your own ways. You can create your name in the world following on your own footsteps, making your own path of glory by trusting over yourself. In this huge world having a identity of your own, Isn't that just amazing? So just start building your life with your own hands because if someone else builds it, it his life not yours. "It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is" by Desiderius Erasmus. When you are some else you pursue fake happiness but when you are yourself you are truly happy. So be yourself, love yourself, buy a real smile for yourself because you is YOU.

THESE ARE SOME BEAUTIFUL LINES I READ SOMEWHERE.

Someone will always have your back.

Someone will always love you.

There is always someone you can trust.

Meet your new best friend.

It's yourself. 

Being Grateful

Well just before writing this post, I read about a real incident about a guy's demise in an accident. My heart was filled with sad and sorrowful emotions making my eyes go wet. May His Soul Rest In peace. Reading that I realized about how joyful my life is and people around me are happy seeing me. I realized I should be grateful towards my life. I have got everything for a person who need to enjoy his life to the fullest. And now even I am thankful to my life.

Life gives us so much, even then we take it for granted, as stated by Cynthia Ozick,“We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.” Rather than expressing your gratitude toward life, we start burdening and blaming it for having less fortune. Being blind in the greed of having something more we forget what we have and start neglecting it. Its so wrong on our part to do that. When we are provided with all amenities, we should enjoy that to the core.

We have so many things to be grateful to. We have our parents, who brought us into this world, gave us clothes to wear, food to eat, shelter to live in. We have our family, for always being on our side. We have our friend for being there with us in our good and bad times. We have got all five senses, not everyone enjoys that.

1)Sense of Sight- For looking at all colors of this beautiful world
2)Sense of  Hearing- For hearing the melody of music, the sound of rain, the voice of our loved ones.
3)Sense of Smell- For smelling the fragrance of the perfumes and beautiful flowers

4)Sense of Touch- For letting us touch the soft texture of silk, feeling the soft and warm hand of our loved one                                                                                                                                              

5)Sense of Taste- For giving the taste of sweet fruit, spicy chilly, sour lime.

If you try to find out there are 100s of things in your life to be grateful to. Always and always express your thankfulness towards life because not everyone enjoy the same privileges as you 

do...

    

Hope

Hope, a word I could never let go. That single word which never left my side at desperate times. Hope is a strong feeling that things you desire to have can possibly be yours. When you truly hope for something, its always the universe which responds to your hope and fulfills your desires. I personally think hoping is equivalent to never giving up. And when you do not give up on hoping, you always end up achieving your goal.

What do you hope for?

- I hope problems doesn't finds my way.
- I hope one day I make my parents feel proud of me.
- I hope I don't fail in the math exam.
- I hope I score good marks in the test.
- I hope people appreciate my talent and admire.
- I hope to become a rich man someday.
- I hope she says yes to my proposal.
- I hope he finds me beautiful.
- I hope that one day I buy that car.
- I hope I reach in time today.
- I hope that tomorrow I get something to eat.
- I hope lecture get off early today.
- I hope I get a good job.

Everyone in this world have some hope, some aspirations that they need to pursue. Keeping up with hope isn't a easy job. Many times trouble may find your way and ask you to give up, but you should always keep on going having a tight grasp on hope. Sometime it may seem like everything you hoped for is over but look for that small ray of hope which is still present. It is said that when every door is closed, there is still one door open, find that door and live your dreams.

HOPE IS A PART AND PARCEL IN EXISTENCE OF LIVING HISTORY. HOPE NEVER DIES, IT ALWAYS REMAINS IN SMALLER FORM. YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE IT AND HARVEST YOUR DREAMS..................

Nothing By The Script

Luckily Unlucky

Passion

As a kid, I never had any talents. I used to curse myself because there wasn't a single thing I was good at. I had carried of so much burden since then. Not only others, even I had so many expectations from myself. But like always, there was disappointment. But I don't why after shedding so much tears, I never gave up. There was always a light, a hope in me that never let me down. I have come up so much since then. I always asked myself what was that I was lacking? And later coming up I realized it was "PASSION".

I never had passion for anything and that always led myself in remorse. I always saw painters, dancer, musicians. I always tried doing all that stuffs but didn't succeed, so I used to leave that and jump on to next thing. But every single thing failed. I was so demoralized that I succeeded in none. But they always say its never to late to start over. Few days ago, My friend Ankit asked,"what was my motto behind writing blogs?" And the answer is, "Writing is my passion, I want myself to be more passionate about writing, And one day I want to be a writer." It is the reason I write blog.

Yes, I finally found my passion and its writing. I got inspired by my friend Shweta, she also writes blog. After reading her blog, I thought even I should give it a try. And it was so much fun to write. The topic I chose was about my life. As my life had been so much miserable all along, I thought it to just write and let go. And it worked. I have made so much progress since then. I have started enjoyed writing, it feels like to just keep on typing and typing. It has enhanced horizons of my mind, making me more creative.

Passion is not only about music or dance or writing or acting or singing. Passion can be even small bit of your life, passion can be in loving, passion can be in adventure, passion can be in finding honor and respect, passion can also be in living. Be passionate about what you do, find your true passion and pursue it and never give up on that. And someday success might come in your way asking your address.

TALENT IS NOT SOMETHING WHAT COMES NATURALLY, IT IS SOMETHING YOU CREATE WITH PASSION.

~ROMIL KOTHARI

WITH THIS POST I WANT LIKE TO THANK MY FRIEND SHWETA FOR WRITING AN AWESOME AND INSPIRING BLOG WHICH MOTIVATED ME TO WRITE. AND ALSO THERE IS ONE MORE PERSON I WOULD LIKE TO THANK SPECIALLY, NIKHIL MY SENIOR FOR SOWING THE SEEDS OF WRITING INTO MY BRAIN.