Saturday, February 4, 2012

People And Experiences

I had been a kind of guy who was always dependent on a thing called "LOVE". I'd try to find why people don't love me. Why I had always been part of their hatred. The trials for finding love for myself led me to self-depreciation. As I used to think it over again and again, why is it always me? I used to think why did everyone deny my presence. I had started to suffer and suffocate from inside. The life had become a burden for me. I was tired of crying every single day. Suffering and pain had become a part of me. I was alone. I thought no one loved me. For me I was a useless person.

But in all this trials I eventually encountered someone who came in my life, who became my life. Every single negative perception that I had about myself in mind was proved wrong by that person. That person valued me, respected me.  That person raised me in my own eyes. I learnt many things after meeting and talking to  that person. Even though I still have problems in my life I don't give much attention to them. Each day now is a pleasant one. I have learned to laugh even in grave situations now.

I would like to share some of things which i learnt in my life.
  • Its not wrong being dependent on something, but not every time. Learn to do things on your own because you can do it. 
  • Even its not wrong to go out and find yourself a partner. But never be in a haste because you many encounter a wrong person for yourself.
  • If u feel nobody loves you and you feel left out. Ask yourself a question, Do you love yourself? or Do you enjoy your own company? If you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you.
  • This is important, don't think too much, over thinking may lead you to stressful life. If thoughts doesn't leave you try to engage yourself. Trust me it makes situation worse than ever
  • Never ever think you are less than anybody else. Always remember you are great, you are beautiful in your own ways.
  • Never remain sad or cry, life is too short for such foul activities.
  • Problems and hardship aren't there to make you weak, Its there to make you strong and wise.
  • You are never alone. If you think people are going away, you are wrong. You are repelling people from your life. Try to have a hold on them
  • Make friends, maybe less, But good and trues ones.
Be happy and laugh a lot. Enjoy every moment and cherish them.

THE THINGS I LEARNT AND EVEN IN GOOD OR BAD STATE, I AM HAPPY. I WOULD LIKE TO THANK THOSE FEW PEOPLE FOR BEING IN MY LIFE AND MAKING IT SPECIAL WITH YOUR PRESENCE. FOR WHO I AM TODAY, FOR EVERY GOOD QUALITY I OWN, ITS JUST BECAUSE OF MY BEST FRIEND "SNIGDHA", IF SHE WASN'T THERE I WOULDN'T BE THERE. MY SOURCE OF INSPIRATION, MY PILLARS OF STRENGTH, SHE IS EVERYTHING. 
THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE. :)

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